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		<title>Should you cosign for a friend or family member?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Nov 2008 00:49:51 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Whether it&#8217;s a car or a motorcycle, co-signing on a loan for a friend or family member is a bad idea.  First of all&#8230; you are helping someone throw money down the drain via interest charges.  Now before you bring up the &#8216;helping to build anothers credit&#8217; fallacy&#8230; I&#8217;d quickly point out that a lifetime of credit use is a lifetime of throwing dollars out the window (for lack of a better metaphor).  Also, when we cosign, the price of the item is almost always grossly inflated and often brand spanking new.  Never buy new&#8230; let someone else loose thousands in minutes as they drive the purchase from the inflated price arena (also known as a Dealership).</p>
<p><em>See also, <a href="http://debtprison.net/wordpress/77/frugality-how-to-cheaply-buy-a-used-car/" target="_blank">How to buy a used vehicle</a></em></p>
<p><strong>Why help someone ruin your credit?</strong></p>
<p>When you cosign for a friend you are telling the bank &#8220;If they don&#8217;t make the payments I will&#8221;.  Bear this in mind because this happens quite often.  As a co-signer you are responsible for the loan and if this debt isn&#8217;t satisfied according to the agreement, your credit report will suffer.  The following two examples are from Debt Prison readers who were faced with issues regarding co-signers.  The first cosigned for a boy friend&#8230; to later have him default and dragged into court.  The other is from a young man who is defaulting on a debt in which a friend&#8217;s father graciously posed as the co-signer.</p>
<blockquote><p>Hi Debt Prison,</p>
<p>I apologize in advance…this is a lengthy question. I just want to provide as much info as I can. I have been documenting all my communications to be prepared as a friend told me to do this.</p>
<p>I cosigned a loan for an ex-boyfriend on 11/26/2002. (Yes – I have painfully learned my lesson to never cosign again!) I was 20 years old at the time, attending college, and very naïve and unaware of what the consequences of my contract obligation would be. The ex was also pretty oblivious when we did this. We were stupid college kids. I signed it because my ex-BF promised he would make his payments on time. The loan was also quite upside down at the time but I did not realize this until after the fact years later when there was a problem…I signed away just trusting the ex would pay the payments and did not think twice. It is an 84 month loan for a used 1999 Jeep Grand Cherokee. He traded in two lease cars for this loan. The amount financed on this date was 27.7k and 37.2 for the total sale price.</p>
<p>Anyway, of course, he started not making payments in 2004 and 2005 and not telling me this. I found out when the bank sent me a letter that payments were 60 days late. At the time we lived together and I was notified. I paid these immediately after being notified and scolded him not to do this again as it was leaving negative marks on my credit report. He was paying for a few years until recently the credit union actually called me in May 2008 asking for March and April’s payments. At this time, I am out of college and working but living paycheck to paycheck as many Americans now are. I can only afford to pay for my “own” financial obligations and cannot pay on his car anymore. (I only did this 3 times or so the payment was so high and I have been eternally broke since college paying my own way through).</p>
<p>We have been broken up now for 4 or 5 years now and have not lived together since. I did call him and ask why he had not paid for March or April and not told me. He told me that he gave the keys to the car to the bank in late April and intended not to pay anymore. I called the bank to verify this and they told me that they had not received the vehicle. At first I tried to negotiate a settlement but they said they could not do a settlement without the car because they need to sell the car then have it go to the recovery department. I told the bank they could repossess the car (which I didn’t know they needed my permission to just say so! I found this out by fluke). I did not know much of his whereabouts just his mailing address that they already had and his cell phone number. I called the bank a week later and it had been repossessed. I gave her my address so she could send me the letter of notice to sell the repo. It went to his address but not mine so I called to clarify that we had not lived together for 5 years and to mail any future correspondence to my current address.</p>
<p>A week letter I receive a letter with new amount owed after selling the repo. As of May 2008 the remaining balance was 15.7k and they say the sale of the vehicle resulted in proceeds totaling $2k for a remaining deficient balance of $9441.86. My credit report is showing this as a charge-off as bad debt in May 2008. Still being unable to pay I let the bank know that I could not pay it. By luck, the ex called to let me know that he received a summons to go to court about this and that my name was also on the letter and that I should go too. I asked him to send me a copy of the letter so I could have more detail but he never did. Therefore, frightened that I would miss a court date I called the bank to ask them to send me the info.</p>
<p>I was pretty upset because what if the ex never called me and assumed I also received the letter? They were not keeping me in the loop and finding out from the ex is not the most reliable info. They would have thought I did not show up to court on purpose when in fact I never knew I needed to. When I called, at this point, they said it was now with a collection agency and I needed to call them. I called the agency and it was like pulling teeth to figure out whether I needed to show in court or not. I asked them to send a copy of the letter. They admitted they sent the letter only to his address and not mine. I gave them my info. I received the notification that they are representing the credit union to collect the debt from me and that I can dispute the amount in 30 days.</p>
<p>The letter was dated Oct 29, 2008 so I still have time to respond if need be. But I don’t think I need to dispute the debt it is real. Should I send a response letter that I have received their communication but cannot pay? Or is this detrimental and maybe I should just not respond? Guess I just need to wait and see if I really do need to go to court? They told me that I was not being summoned at all just him and my name was just on the letter he received since I am the cosigner. Turns out he never showed up in court either. Not sure what his plans are. I don’t know what I can really do here. Do I just sit and wait to be summoned? They said they will try to collect from him first but this whole situation is just stressing me out. I don’t want to have to file bankruptcy over this or go to court for that matter.</p>
<p>Thoughts? Comments? Thanks for even taking the time to read this. Any words of wisdom are truly, truly appreciated.</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Debt Prison response&#8230;</strong></p>
<p>Wow Cosigner,</p>
<p>I had to break your comment up into sections to more easily read it. So let’s see if I’ve got it. Old debt on a jeep, repo, left over debt from sale of jeep and previous balance on the loan…<br />
You are cosigner.</p>
<p>As a cosigner you are obligated to see that this debt is satisfied or your credit report will suffer. Thats why we have co-signers… to help others ruin our credit…. Just kidding…</p>
<p>In this case your credit is on the line. You’ve been doing an excellent job of trying to stay in the loop. You should. I would go to court as though my ex bf didn’t exist. I would talk to the judge about the circumstances… the one’s that you’ve briefed me on above.. Then try and cooperate with the court. But place as much pressure on ex bf to satisfy the debt as possible. In fact the court should place the blame on the ex and try and work with him mostly… let’s hope.. however, you are responsible for this debt.. as much as him.</p>
<p>The court will understand that you are in the middle of this situation without having caused it… so they’ll likely look kindly on you… the problem is your credit report. I honestly don’t know how this will play out on your credit file. Perhaps you will come back and let me know later on (thanks in advance!!) But to get to my overall point.. go to court and participate as much as required. Remember it’s your credit on the line…</p>
<blockquote><p>Hi Debt Prison,</p>
<p>I was 19 when I got my loan with a co signer my friends dad, it was a 20000$ dollar commercial loan we did not put anything down but I made payments as much as I could then I wasn’t able to make payments due to financial reasons and my friends dad is tired of having to make payments and so I was wondering if I am not able to make the monthly payments what should I do..cause monthly payment is 700 $ month and I only make 750 a month from which I have to pay rent and food and bills so leaves me with like 200 a month which I save but a not able to pay it off ….what should I do?</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Debt Prison response&#8230;</strong> </p>
<p>Hey Bobby,</p>
<p>In this case the creditor comes after your friends father. That’s the price he has to pay for co-signing &#8211; and that’s what co-signers are for, to give the creditor someone else to chase after for a payment. This is what I would do; I would pay my friends dad what I could each month, and keep a tally of what I owe him. Then as the years go by I would repay the man until I had paid back all that I owed him plus more.</p>
<p><em>Your other options are:</em></p>
<p>Sell something to generate cash</p>
<p>Earn more money each month</p>
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		<title>Buy Clothes at Salvage Stores (Hudsons &amp; Dirt Cheap)</title>
		<link>http://debtprison.net/wordpress/223/buy-clothes-at-salvage-stores-hudsons-dirt-cheap/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 31 Oct 2008 22:36:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I buy all of my work clothes and many of my &#8216;going out&#8217; clothes at clothing salvage stores.  This is because some clothing salvage stores carry new merchandise which is almost always in perfect condition.  My wife and I went shopping recently at &#8216;Dirt Cheap&#8217; in Lumberton, MS and found shirts for $1.00 and jeans [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I buy all of my work clothes and many of my &#8216;going out&#8217; clothes at clothing salvage stores.  This is because some clothing salvage stores carry new merchandise which is almost always in perfect condition.  My wife and I went shopping recently at <a href="http://www.hudsonsalvagellc.com/html/dc.html" target="_blank">&#8216;Dirt Cheap&#8217; </a>in Lumberton, MS and found shirts for $1.00 and jeans for $7.00.  And I&#8217;m talking brand name clothing here&#8230;. not some junk manufactured for the dollar store.  I was about to check out with two pairs of Levi&#8217;s in my hand when a cashier announced over the intercom that the registers were closed due to a computer failure.  Alas, I would have to return another day.</p>
<p>Around Hattiesburg there is a company called <a href="http://atlas.megagate.com:8888/hudsons/storelist.asp" target="_blank">Hudson&#8217;s Salvage Center</a>.  They operate a handful of Hudson&#8217;s and Dirt Cheap stores around the southern Mississippi area.  Since they&#8217;ve been in this business for a couple of decades they&#8217;ve turned salvage retail into a huge business.  They buy salvage items from around the country for say 10%&#8230; and then resell for 60% and often less.  For example, an Academy Sports store in Galveston, TX (wiped out by Hurricane Ike) sold Hudsons truckloads of merchandise from their warehouse. The merchandise was damaged from the Hurricane.  Though much of it was still unspoiled, the insurance company pays 100% for the claim.  The &#8216;damaged&#8217; merchandise is then sold in bulk to companies like Hudsons.  Hudsons will then filter through the merchandise, tag it for resell, and then place it on the retail floor.</p>
<p><img style="margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px;" src="http://debtprison.net/images/frugal/dirtcheap.jpg" alt="" width="220" height="165" /><img src="http://debtprison.net/images/frugal/dirtycheap.jpg" alt="" width="210" height="158" /></p>
<p>In most towns you can find salvage centers like these as well as wholesale and liquidation stores.  There are also many stores which sell used merchandise. Nearly everywhere I&#8217;ve been you can find a <a href="http://www.salvationarmyusa.org/usn/www_usn.nsf/vw-sublinks/85256DDC007274DF80256B80003CED42?openDocument" target="_blank">Salvation Army Store </a>or even a <a href="http://locator.goodwill.org/" target="_blank">Goodwill</a>.  These stores often sell used merchandise that was donated to the store.  Though these clothes may not be new, many of them appear to be.  And they can work out great if you need clothing for working outdoors (like me) or performing chores around the house.</p>
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		<title>I&#8217;m Frugal about my Dryer</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 04:44:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve just finished the third repair on my clothes dryer in the last seven years.  I bought this dryer used in 1995.  It was probably about ten years old at that time, so it&#8217;s around twenty three years old now.  I try to save money everywhere I can so when the dryer broke again I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve just finished the third repair on my clothes dryer in the last seven years.  I bought this dryer used in 1995.  It was probably about ten years old at that time, so it&#8217;s around twenty three years old now.  I try to save money everywhere I can so when the dryer broke again I decided to pull out my maintenance hat once more.  It&#8217;s not the best looking appliance in the house but it still works good. </p>
<p>A dryer is not a complicated piece of machinery.  There&#8217;s only a few important parts that normally break over the years.  So far on my dryer the parts that I&#8217;ve personally replaced are the heating element, broken door switch, and the belt that spins the basket.</p>
<p>About seven years ago the heating element went out.  The dryer would still come on and the basket would spin but the clothes didn&#8217;t heat up.  So, for the first time in my life I decided to find a heating element and replace it.  It wasn&#8217;t too hard to find (it&#8217;s the shiny long thing on the right).  I believe the heating element was around $35 at that time and took me about thirty mintues to replace.  Now the picture below is what the backside of the dyer looks like when the access panel is removed.</p>
<p><iframe src="http://rcm.amazon.com/e/cm?t=debpri-20&#038;o=1&#038;p=13&#038;l=ur1&#038;category=homegarden&#038;banner=0ZTKWP400KVSXZMDYN82&#038;f=ifr" width="468" height="60" scrolling="no" border="0" marginwidth="0" style="border:none;" frameborder="0"></iframe></p>
<p>Before I started working on the dryer I took a shop vac and vacuumed out the inch thick lint layer which was resting peacefully along the bottom.  It&#8217;s amazing what you can find inside a dryer.  There was money in there, jewelry, and even a pair of thongs from the dark ages&#8230;</p>
<p><img src="http://debtprison.net/images/frugal/dryer2.JPG" alt="" width="450" height="342" /></p>
<p>My old room mate slammed the door on the dryer about four years ago, breaking the tiny plastic latch which holds the door shut.  The dryer would only come on if the door was kept closed.  Well it seemed to me that a door latch would work just as well, besides I had one handy.</p>
<p><img src="http://debtprison.net/images/frugal/dryer3.JPG" alt="" width="450" height="396" /></p>
<p>About a month ago the belt on the dryer broke.  The dryer would still come on and would still warm up but the basket couldn&#8217;t spin.  This was the hardest repair to do because you had to take the front off the dryer.  Then the basket had to be supported while the new belt was installed.  The belt had to be carefully placed into position on the pulley and motor assembly.</p>
<p><img style="vertical-align: middle;" src="http://debtprison.net/images/frugal/dryer1.JPG" alt="clothes dryer motor and pulley" width="450" height="342" /></p>
<p>Once finished this repair took about an hour and a half in all.  Now if I had bought a new dryer everytime something broke I would have spent at least $250 in the last seven years.  The belt only cost me $17 and now there&#8217;s another repair at which I&#8217;m a first class professional maintenance man.</p>
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		<title>5 Steps to getting your Passport</title>
		<link>http://debtprison.net/wordpress/130/5-steps-to-getting-your-passport/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Apr 2008 16:40:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Having just gone through the procedures for obtaining a passport, I thought it would be a good idea to share the experience (there was a few surprises).  Since I had never applied for a passport before there were a few things I had to learn.  But overall the process was easier than I imagined.  I performed [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Having just gone through the procedures for obtaining a passport, I thought it would be a good idea to share the experience (there was a few surprises).  Since I had never applied for a passport before there were a few things I had to learn.  But overall the process was easier than I imagined.  I performed all of the application process at the Postal Office, but you can visit <a href="http://travel.state.gov/passport/forms/ds11/ds11_842.html" target="_blank">this webpage</a> for a headstart right now.</p>
<p><strong><em>**Disclaimer &#8211; Debtprison.net does not administer legal or financial advice.</em> The contents of this website are my opinions on collection agencies and how to deal with them. Nothing on this website should be interpreted as legal advice or council. No opinions on this website should be used to replace the advice of your financial advisor or your legal council.</strong></p>
<p>**Update &#8211; My passport arrived exactly two weeks after I applied.  This was much faster than I had thought!</p>
<p><strong>1)  Obtain your birth certificate</strong></p>
<p>Some people will surely laugh when I say this, but I thought the document from the hospital where I was born was my birth certificate.  This is a form with a picture of the hospital and two ink imprints of my baby feet on the back.  I think I formed this conclusion because it&#8217;s the only document that I can ever recall seeing related to my birth.  And interesting Carnival Cruise Line let me on a cruise ship in New Orleans using <em>that document</em> as my birth certificate years ago.  So that reinforced my belief that those two imprints of my baby feet represented my birth certificate.  I mean really, when you think about it, what form could prove who you are any more than one with your prints from birth. </p>
<p>My state Department of Health and Records website redirected me to <a href="http://www.vitalchek.com" target="_blank">www.vitalchek.com</a>.  Through their website I purchased a copy of my birth certificate for $15.00.  Then shipping and handling was another $7.50.  Now vitalchek.com offered an &#8216;airmail&#8217; option for $20.00 or something, it was a lot more.  But I didn&#8217;t see how that would speed up the processing.  As it turned out I was right.  The order is still processed at your state&#8217;s Department of Health.  I ordered the certificate on Saturday and it arrived the following Thursday.  So I wouldn&#8217;t pay for the &#8216;airmail&#8217; unless you just enjoy spending money.</p>
<p><strong>2)  You need a Government issued photo I.D.</strong></p>
<p>I just used my state issued drivers license to satisfy this part of the application process.  But you can also use a state issued photo I.D. or a military I.D..</p>
<p><strong>3)  Call the Post Office to make an appointment</strong></p>
<p>If you have time to stop by in advance, pick up the written passport application form so you can go ahead and fill it out.  At the appointment you will fill out the form (if you haven&#8217;t already), have your photo taken, present your photo I.D., and pay using your checkbook.</p>
<p><img title="baby feet" src="http://debtprison.net/images/babyfeet.jpg" alt="baby feet" align="middle" /></p>
<p><strong>4)  During the appointment</strong></p>
<p><img src="http://debtprison.net/images/icon_wink.gif" alt="" align="left" /> At my Post Office there is a side door that says &#8216;Administrative Services&#8217;.  Behind that door were all the offices for Passports and other activities.  First she gave us the forms to fill out.  Here&#8217;s the surprising information you need to know:</p>
<p>Your parents birth date and place of birth</p>
<p>Your spouse (or ex-spouse) date and place of birth</p>
<p>Your date and place of marriage</p>
<p>The year of your divorce (if applicable)</p>
<p>I wasn&#8217;t expecting to have to produce information related to a previous marriage.  After the forms were filled out we were taken to a room to have our photo taken.  I stood in front of a white dry erase board and she snapped the pic.  She then sat the camera down to allow the prints time to form.  We ended up having to take my photo again because there was a mysterious green dot right next to my head.  This time I stood in front of a white cardboard wall and the pic turned out normal.</p>
<p>I had to write out a check to the U.S. Department of State for $75.00.  Also, I had to write out a check to the U.S. Postal Service for $40.00 (this covered the price of the photo and handling).</p>
<p><strong>5)  Time to wait </strong></p>
<p>My birth certificate, which I had just obtained, was taken away from me.  It seems that your birth certificate is sent off with your passport application.  The lady at the Post Office said that it will return to me in the mail, but separate from my passport.  She said that current processing is about 4 to 6 weeks.  But she did comment that someone recently had gotten theirs in two weeks. </p>
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		<title>Debt and Depression</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2008 00:39:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes I feel like my life is going nowhere financially.  It&#8217;s hard to think about being in Debt Prison and not end up with a sad feeling in the pit of your stomach.  Usually I just don&#8217;t think about it.  Rather than be depressed I just focus on my work, focus on my budget, and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes I feel like my life is going nowhere financially.  It&#8217;s hard to think about being in Debt Prison and not end up with a sad feeling in the pit of your stomach.  Usually I just don&#8217;t think about it.  Rather than be depressed I just focus on my work, focus on my budget, and just keep barreling forward.  The days turn into months and the months into years.  It will be over soon enough&#8230;.I keep telling myself.  The best way to keep debt from beating you down is to turn it into a positive life experience.  I know that I have to suffer for the stupid mistakes I&#8217;ve made.  That&#8217;s called consequences.  By accepting the penalties that a lifestyle of reckless spending has produced, I know that I&#8217;ll be a much better person if I pay my dues. </p>
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<p><strong>Try and embrace this struggle as an accomplishment</strong></p>
<p>Now I realize that a pile of bills may not look like an accomplishment.  But keep this in mind.  If you continue to struggle and pay off your debts in full, you will never be the same.  Your life will have changed and you will be a better person at the end of this ordeal.  You must understand that once this burden is behind you, that other part of you that was so irresponsible with money &#8211; will be dead and buried.  That is truly a wonderful thing.  Is it not?  We must bear in mind that this struggle <em>will end</em> one day, and when it does our lives are going to be magnificent. </p>
<p>It&#8217;s sort of like going to college.  I got up early each day and drove to campus.  I attended each class, sat in the front row, and took lots of notes.  After class I would go to work and attempt to put in around thirty hours each week.  Nights I would often study.  The months turned into years.  Then one day I came home from work, took a look on the porch, and there sat a large envelope from USPS.  I opened the envelope to find my Bachelor of Science degree.  This was an emotional experience for me because my senior year was a real struggle.  I needed at least a C in General Physiology and didn&#8217;t know if I&#8217;d achieved it.  After all, they let you walk before the grades come out.  When I saw that degree, a knot came up in my throat and a tear to my eye.  I raised my fists and shook them at the sky.  I plan on doing the same thing when all my debt is gone.  The difference between a debt education and a college education, is that you pay for the debt education up front.  The education comes later.  But both of these change us, for each of these has its own rewards.  Let us focus on the rewards&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>How I make it day to day</strong></p>
<p>The truth is that I don&#8217;t go shopping anymore for clothing.  If I <em>have </em>to buy some jeans for work I stop off at the <a href="http://www.debtprison.net/wordpress/90/how-to-seek-bargains-for-food-and-clothes/" target="_blank">salvage store</a> and dig around.  I rarely go out to eat and refuse to spend money on just about everything.  This can be quite a depressing environment to live in daily.  I avoid this depression by keeping my mind busy.  I simply just keep my mind off of my debt.  Just like right now.  I&#8217;m writing a blog post (which is extremely therapeutic) to help me release my thoughts, energy, and emotion.  I work forty to fifty hours a week on a <a href="http://debtprison.net/wordpress/employment/" target="_blank">job</a> where I set the pace.  And since my pace is a &#8216;busy&#8217; one, my mind stays occupied all day long.  Writing has become my most intimate hobby.  In front of this laptop is now my preferred sanctuary &#8211; aside from work of course. </p>
<p><img src="http://debtprison.net/images/icon_wink.gif" alt="" align="left" /> It also helps that all my debt is up to date.  So there are no random computers and collectors calling my phone all throughout the day.  That makes a big difference.  The only time that I become aware of my debt is on Sundays when I open Microsoft Money and input my receipts to reconcile.  This new lifestyle of no spending has now become part of my nature.  Just as a college education morphs you into a broader thinker, a frugal mindset is naturally the product of avoiding the negative repercussions of senseless spending. </p>
<p>I&#8217;ve learned to focus on what I <em>do have.</em>  I have so much to be thankful for.  Don&#8217;t we all?  Two days ago I was working in a very rural area about ten miles east of Quitman, MS.  I had parked my company truck in a small church parking lot and unloaded my four-wheeler to do some inspection for the local utility.  Coming from down the street I heard the sound of a small electric motor.  It was an elderly black man who was nearly immobile, the sound was coming from his electric powered wheel chair.  He had heard my truck stop at the church so he came up to check things out.  &#8220;I&#8217;m just being nosey&#8221; he said.  He was wearing a glove with a fork velcroed to it so that he could eat.  This man couldn&#8217;t walk or stand and could barely move his arms.  We had a nice visit for about twenty minutes, just talking about the weather, work, and women.  Later, as I passed him on the street, I wondered how quickly he would be willing to trade places with me &#8211; even with all this horrible debt.  It&#8217;s times like these when I know to pick myself up.  &#8220;Hold your head up&#8221; I tell myself, &#8220;You have a great life.&#8221;  And that&#8217;s what all of us enslaved to debt must do, keep our heads up. </p>
<p><strong>Fight depression with action</strong></p>
<p>Earlier I spoke of keeping my mind busy by working all day and writing in the evenings.  When I used to <a href="http://www.debtprison.net/wordpress/84/how-a-manager-can-turn-employees-into-a-team/" target="_blank">manage large numbers of people</a> there would be times when I would become very agitated and stressed because of the conduct of my employees or customers.  What I learned was that in order to combat my own stress and depression, I needed to tackle problems head on by taking action.  If there was an employee that was causing problems, I learned to immediately call that person aside and take corrective action.  As soon as the conversation was over I felt like a new person.  It was as though a weight had been lifted.  </p>
<p>It&#8217;s the same way with our debts.  Instead of focusing your energy on your debts, focus your energy on what you can do <em>right now</em> to erase this problem from your life.  Taking action gives you a purpose.  Rather than focusing on a problem, you are now focusing on the solution.  It&#8217;s like giving yourself a mission to accomplish.  It&#8217;s been said that an idle mind is the devils workshop.  We don&#8217;t want our minds to be idle &#8211; not while there are debts to be paid.  For example, you may decide that you need to earn more money by getting a new job.  So instead of feeling sorry for yourself, you sit down at the computer and scroll through job listings on monster.com listed in your city.  That seems like more fun doesn&#8217;t it?  When I first decided to take <a href="http://debtprison.net/wordpress/13/bankruptcy-or-debt-settlement/" target="_blank">&#8216;Long Debt Road&#8217;</a> I had just quit my job.  Paying back my debts in full wasn&#8217;t the only decision I made that weekend.  I was unhappy.  The job I had was driving me crazy and I think that somehow drove me to spend money &#8211; even money that I had to borrow.  I decided that part of my debt recovery would involve getting a new job immediately. </p>
<p>The first part of my adult life I spent in fear.  What if I go to a party and get embarrassed in front of people I don&#8217;t know?  What if I lose my job, what would happen?  I decided to stop living in fear.  Tomorrow if my boss called and said &#8220;Hey Barry, we just don&#8217;t need you anymore!&#8221;  It wouldn&#8217;t faze me because I&#8217;ve learned to welcome these challenges.  Often challenges such as these, force you to look inside yourself and take chances.  By doing so you learn to have trust in yourself and your talents.  But most importantly you learn that fear never makes our lives better.  Let us take action and welcome the new day.</p>
<p><strong>If possible avoid taking medication</strong></p>
<p>More than ever Americans are turning to drugs to &#8216;cope&#8217; with the stresses of life and debt management.  Medicating your way into tranquility may feel nice, but there are always more consequences.  Talking about this reminds me of something Bill Maher said on his HBO show.  He was talking about people taking drugs for stress and said (paraphrasing) &#8220;Have you ever seen a squirrel trying to eat.  He&#8217;s eating and jumping around, looking quickly everywhere, expecting any second for something to come along and bite him in the ass!  But that&#8217;s life folks, it&#8217;s stressful!&#8221;  This is true.  There&#8217;s just a certain amount of stress that goes along with being alive and existing on planet earth.  The reason I believe turning to medicine is a last resort is because of side effects.  For every drug that induces a reaction &#8211; there will be an equal and opposite reaction.  This opposite reaction will be displayed differently in different people, but it will be there nonetheless.  Personally, the side effects often create a circumstance worse than my previous condition.  For that reason I&#8217;ve tried very hard at tailoring my lifestyle in such a way that stress and depression are minimized. </p>
<p>I hope these ideas will help some of you out there that are struggling with your debts.  I know it&#8217;s hard.  But anyone in life that produces great things does so after a lot of hard work and struggle.  Albert Einstein said that his scientific genius was &#8220;98% perspiration and 2% inspiration.&#8221;  We should expect nothing less.  Great accomplishments require remarkable drive from our talents and energy.  But let us learn from our mistakes.  Let&#8217;s focus on the actions necessary to pound our debts into the dirt.  Then we can walk the earth again as free men and women shaking our fists at the sky and saying &#8220;Go forth and be debt free!&#8221; </p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 02:31:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve used Wordpress for about 6 months now and thought I would share my experience with SEO, duplicate content, google adsense, google analytics, and partial vs. full feeds.  Six months ago I was not what you would call web savvy. In fact, many bloggers would probably still claim as much about my blog.  I had [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve used Wordpress for about 6 months now and thought I would share my experience with SEO, duplicate content, google adsense, google analytics, and partial vs. full feeds.  Six months ago I was not what you would call web savvy. In fact, many bloggers would probably still claim as much about my blog.  I had no earthly idea what Wordpress even was until I activated it on my domain.  It was there the whole time, just waiting for someone to turn it on.  Well finally I decided to start writing and thought maybe this Wordpress thingy would help.  That was <em>hundreds</em> of blog hours ago.  Although my main focus has always been content, I&#8217;ve worked steadily at improving my SEO and reader friendly navigation.  Please allow me to share with you my personal opinions (these ideas are only valid today).  Remember, I have a full time job &#8211; outdoors &#8211; and my degree in Biology hasn&#8217;t endowed me with miracles when it comes to websites.  It&#8217;s all OHT, or on the hobby training. </p>
<p><strong>*Note: Before editing your template files you need to make a copy of the php file and paste it into notepad, not microsoft word.</strong>  Just right click inside the template, click on select all, then right click and copy.  Now just paste into notepad and save them (include the date in the name like &#8217;singlepost04.23.2008.txt&#8217;.  This way you can always refer back to the original file.  Or you can delete the entire template in progress - and paste the old one back in.</p>
<p><strong>Partial VS Full Feeds </strong></p>
<p>Let&#8217;s start with partial vs. full feeds.  Use the full feeds option.  This allows people using google reader and other feed readers to read a blog post without ever coming to your website.  I know, I know &#8211; this seems a little scary but just relax.  First of all, let&#8217;s bear in mind that the goal of blogging is to influence other people&#8217;s lives with your content &#8211; not show them how pretty your site is or look at all the amazing google ads you&#8217;ve got on there.  Don&#8217;t take my word for it, I&#8217;m a small timer &#8211; read <a href="http://techdirt.com/articles/20070813/014338.shtml" target="_blank">this from the big timers</a>.  Also, I wouldn&#8217;t worry about others ripping off your content.  It&#8217;s not that big of a deal, even if they do it just means that someone thinks it&#8217;s good enough to reprint somewhere else.  In which case&#8230;.congratulations.</p>
<p><strong>Duplicate Content </strong></p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure how much of a problem duplicate content is when google crawls a wordpress blog, but I&#8217;ve done a few things which will limit the chances.  First of all, on the main index page I only display an &#8216;excerpt&#8217; of each article &#8211; about 50 words.  This is just enough to give a reader a taste for the actual article and decide if they want to read it.  By providing the &#8216;excerpt&#8217; the entire post is not displayed and therefore not indexed.  I accomplished this by going to Presentation, Theme Editor, Main Index Template, and changed the following line:</p>
<p>After the line that says &#8216;div class= entry&#8217; you should see one that says &#8216;php the post&#8217;.  Just change the word post to the word &#8216;excerpt&#8217;. Secondly I edited my category page to only display the titles.  Inside my category.php file I removed the following text:</p>
<p>&#8216;php the content&#8217;</p>
<p><img src="http://debtprison.net/images/icon_wink.gif" alt="" align="left" /> My memory is a little fuzzy on this but I believe that&#8217;s what it said before I changed it. This doesn&#8217;t allow any of the blog post to be displayed on the category page.  My goal in changing the Main Index Template and the Category Template was to enable readers to scan quickly for titles that interested them.  However, this isn&#8217;t even really that important since the majority of my traffic comes from search engines.  But once again it does help to limit duplicate content.</p>
<p><strong>Solving Duplicate Content using robots.txt </strong></p>
<p>At the top right hand corner of this page you&#8217;ll see the &#8216;Email this Post&#8217; link.  This will enable a pop up window so you can email this article.  I&#8217;ve read that this &#8216;email the post plugin&#8217; generates an entire set of new links related to the pop up.  I will deal with this using the robots.txt file in a moment. There&#8217;s also duplicate content if you use the &#8216;archives&#8217; function.  I removed the archives section from my sidebar because it seems pointless to me.  If a reader has ended up at your site and they want to find info, it seems to me that the main index page, categories links, and google search box is more than adequate.  But just in case the google bot finds it&#8217;s way to the &#8216;archives&#8217; somehow, there is a way to disable it using the robots.txt file as well.</p>
<p>Finally, the RSS feeds can also generate duplicate content.  I&#8217;ve decided not to block google bot from finding my feeds because I read that if someone posts your content on another site, google is smart enough to determine which site has the original content by following feeds and comparing it to content on the site.  I&#8217;m not sure about this but the guy sounded like he knew what he was talking about so hey&#8230;&#8230;.what&#8217;s a guy to do.  Lastly is the trackback content, apparently this needs to be blocked as well so I&#8217;m blocking it &#8211; at least I think so, according to a couple of various sources I&#8217;ve gotten the format correct. So, with the robots.txt file I want to block the &#8216;email this post&#8217; content, archives content, and the trackback content.  The following text comes courtesy from <a href="http://www.utheguru.com/seo_wordpress-wordpress-seo-plugin" target="_blank">theguru</a>.</p>
<p>User-Agent: *<br />
Disallow: */trackback*<br />
Disallow: /wp-*<br />
Disallow: /20*<br />
User-Agent: MediaPartners-Google<br />
Allow: /</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not sure how relevant the format is, but time will tell.  The wp-* is where the email pop up content is stored. Next the trackbacks are blocked.  Since the archives pages are normally something like /2007/04/ the 20* is supposed to block any url with 2007 or 2008 after the slash.  In the example used by theguru, he uses /20* to block archive pages.  But since I use the &#8216;id number&#8217; in my permalink structure, articles 200 &#8211; 209 wouldn&#8217;t get indexed, so I left that out of my robots.txt file.</p>
<p><strong>Google Analytics</strong></p>
<p>I use google analytics to show where my traffic is coming from, but also to show how many hits per url, specific keyword searches, and all sorts of other useful information.  Many of the attributes of analytics I have yet to use.  This has been a learning process for me and I only have time for so much &#8216;learning&#8217; each week.  The two main functions of analytics that impress me are the ability to show where traffic is coming from, and the ability to show specifically what a person types into a search engine that leads them to your site.  This is useful information.  For example, when someone links to me and thus brings me traffic, I email them and thank them for the link.  This often builds into a nice web referral system for both of us. </p>
<p>The reason I like to review what readers typed into a search engine is because it gives me ideas for new articles.  If I see a trend of similar searches that come to my site, but I know my content is lacking &#8211; I will write an article that satisfies these readers.  This is a great way to build search engine traffic.</p>
<p><strong>Wordpress and SEO</strong></p>
<p>Most importantly I use &#8216;pretty permalinks&#8217; and downloaded the <a href="http://wp.uberdose.com/2007/03/24/all-in-one-seo-pack/" target="_blank">&#8216;All-in-one-SEO-Pack&#8217;</a> for Wordpress.  I used to have ugly permalinks &#8211; you know the debtprison.net/wordpress/?=42/.  I had to change over to the &#8216;custom permalink structure&#8217;, and I decided to use this one: /%post_id%/%postname%/.  This way I still get the &#8216;id&#8217; number plus the name is included in the URL.  Having the id number comes in handy when you are setting up a &#8216;related links&#8217; section or trying to quickly determine where the link you want is located in a list of url&#8217;s.  To keep from breaking all my previous links I installed the <a href="http://scott.yang.id.au/code/permalink-redirect/" target="_blank">redirect plugin</a>, which enables readers to find the &#8216;pretty permalinks&#8217; even if they clicked on one of those ugly ones. </p>
<p>The all in one seo pack enabled me to easily add specific keywords to the header of individual articles.  It also allows you to set up your titles so that when google displays them in search results it looks like this &#8216;Wordpress SEO and Google Adsense / Debt Prison.  This was a huge breakthrough for me.  Before I installed this all in one &#8211; all of my links were displayed by google as &#8216;Debt Prison / Blog Archive / Wordpress SEO and Google Adsense&#8217;.  Hell, no one could even see the title of the article.  Since I&#8217;ve made these two changes my search engine traffic has <em>doubled.  </em>This post has had 25 unique visitors from search engines within 24 hours of publishing, and my page rank is &#8216;low&#8217; according to google webmaster tools.</p>
<p>Encourage readers to use the comment section at the end of a post.  Here&#8217;s why.  As google bot crawls your posts it will include the comments in the post index.  Using google analytics I often go to google and type in the exact phrase that the search engine user did, that brought them to my site.  I do this to see where my site was ranked for certain phrases.  Often the text that google search displays about my site is something from the <em>comments</em>.  This is a way for us to add valuable content and discussion to a post by letting our readers perform the work.  Often when I read a post about implementing a plugin or using ads, I read the comments.  So many times the comment section of a post will have content more valuable than the actual post.  So encorage readers to add their comments.  I would like for you to add comments to the bottom of this post.  Tell me what you like or dislike about the changes I&#8217;ve made and give me some of your best ideas for Wordpress.  Thanks!</p>
<p>I try and respond to comments very quickly.  My average response time is probably two hours and I think this helps alot when it comes to reader retention.  First of all, I think readers are pleasantly surprised when a website administrator responds to their comments.  Even more so if the response is fast.  But this also encourages more readers to leave comments because they feel confident that you will give them your opinion &#8211; and quickly.  So more comments leads to more comments.</p>
<p>Having made the above important changes to my blog set up, something should be said about content.  Once you get your blog in good shape for search engines, you should focus all of your attention on providing valuable, unique content.  By writing useful information that is both value rich and unique, you increase your chances of other websites linking to yours.  <em>This is how you dramatically increase your search engine traffic.  </em>The number of &#8216;highly ranked&#8217; websites that point to yours, is the difference in 500 hits per day and 50,000.  It&#8217;s just that important.  So once you get the title layout, tags, keywords, and all that jazz squared away&#8230;..focus on content. </p>
<p>Before publishing a post, copy and paste it from the view screen into microsoft word.  Use word to check for spelling and grammatical errors.  Having misspelled words is <em>extremely</em> negative.  Think of this from a readers perspective.  You are either too dumb or in too much of hurry to write correctly.  This perception obviously bleeds over into the content.  Readers are likely to decide that perhaps your content is also dumb or hastily thrown together.  In which case they are more apt to leave your site and search out more thoughtful material.</p>
<p><strong>Google Adsense</strong></p>
<p>There&#8217;s a lot of good articles out there about google adsense and wordpress.  First of all, about one hour ago I read a comment from a reader that said something like &#8220;When I see ads on a blog I immediately leave, because I know the content is no good.&#8221;  Well&#8230;&#8230;I&#8217;ve heard all of that before and &#8211; I think it&#8217;s about the stupidest thing that&#8217;s ever came out of anyone&#8217;s mouth.  I&#8217;ve seen people complain on digg.com because someone posted an article from their blog&#8230;&#8230;..and their blog had ads on it and they were like &#8220;You&#8217;re just using digg to make money from ads&#8221; and immediately someone posted &#8220;Yeah just like digg is doing &#8211; placing ads on their site to make money&#8230;&#8230;moron!!!&#8221;  To all of these folks I just have to say &#8220;Get over yourself already&#8230;&#8230;.&#8221;  If you have a problem with advertising then no problem, just leave!  I suppose these same people don&#8217;t watch CNN, or Fox News, or MSNBC, or any other news program because every ten minutes or so they have one of those damn commercials.  Ahhhhhh, just more silly self righteous attitudes from silly people.  Ignore them.  I&#8217;ll stop using ads when they stop paying.  Besides, providing your readers with additional opportunities to obtain useful information from their visit to <em>your</em> blog is a good thing.</p>
<p>Google&#8217;s <a href="http://www.smashingmagazine.com/2007/03/22/google-adsense-facts-faqs-and-tools/" target="_blank">best profit ad</a> is the large rectangle, with a white background and no border.  If your article is short, place ads near the beginning.  If the article is long, place ads near the end.  I have all but one of my ads built into the php so I don&#8217;t have to add them to each individual post.  Only at the end of the post do I change the type of ad.  It just depends on the look and feel of the post. </p>
<p>Until recently I only had three ads on a page.  A small image ad banner at the top of the article.  And then a small banner text ad in the beginning, and at the end.  Two weeks ago I added the wide skyscraper to the sidebar on the left.  I replaced the image banner ad at the top with a &#8216;links&#8217; ad.  *<em>NOTE, I&#8217;ve already removed the text link ad from the top of my posts.  I didn&#8217;t like the way it looked when viewed with Firefox instead of Explorer.  I&#8217;m going to place a text ad in the middle somewhere</em>. This ad looks a lot like a menu bar and I made the text blue to match the other links on my pages. I also added the medium rectangle text ad to the beginning of each post.  I&#8217;ve definitely seen improvements in my revenue.  When I first started blogging I said that I didn&#8217;t want to be one of those web pages with a bunch of ads surrounding the article.  Now I have a bunch of ads surrounding my articles, at least at the beginning.  Personally, I think it makes my articles look a lot more professional because of all the relevant links on the page. </p>
<p>Google has a policy about blocking any more than three ads on one page.  But there is a way to get more than three ads on a page.  I discovered this when I placed the link menu at the top of my articles.  I was able to have a links ad at the top, a square at the beginning, a text/image link banner at the end, and the wide skyscraper on the left.  Inside the single post template I put the links ad <strong>above</strong> the title of the post.  I&#8217;m not sure why exactly this works but it does.</p>
<p>Yes, I&#8217;m one of those evil bloggers who wants to blog and get paid.  But seriously, bear in mind that the content <em>is free</em>.  I call these proximity dollar links.  I brought the links within my readers&#8217; proximity and they clicked on them.  Everybody wins, even those self righteous elitists who&#8217;ve already left&#8230;..</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Mar 2008 00:47:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Many people stress about the possibility of an audit from the Internal Revenue Service.  If you follow some common sense principles you should be able to limit the possibility of being called upon by these agents of good will and sympathy (LOL).  Although the I.R.S. can audit you for up to three years after you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Many people stress about the possibility of an audit from the Internal Revenue Service.  If you follow some common sense principles you should be able to limit the possibility of being called upon by these agents of good will and sympathy (LOL).  Although the I.R.S. can audit you for up to three years after you file a return, most occur within eighteen months.  My father was audited three years in a row.  Often when you&#8217;ve been audited, the I.R.S. likes to make a come back the following year.  Let&#8217;s take a look at some strategies to limit this occurrence.  <em>See also Debt Prison related article: <a href="http://debtprison.net/wordpress/68/can-you-go-to-jail-for-not-paying-your-taxes/" target="_blank">Can you go to jail for not paying your taxes?</a></em></p>
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<p>Understand that the I.R.S. audits certain groups more than others.  For example, if you have just straight income documented on a W-2, with no investments, contributions, or strange deductions, then you aren&#8217;t likely to be audited.  We&#8217;ll call this group number 1.  It&#8217;s true that the I.R.S. computer system will <em>randomly</em> flag a very small number of people within group number 1 to be audited &#8211; even if everything looks legitimate and the tax form is flawless.</p>
<p>Group 2 would be lower income wage earners who receive a percentage of their income in tips, such as a waitress or pizza delivery person.  These workers are more carefully scrutinized because of the ease with which one can omit cash earnings from their 1040.  The I.R.S. has calculated a range of what these wage earners&#8217; cash tips should be.  If the amount you claim in cash tips varies wildly from what is expected, you may have just bought yourself a dinner date with big brother.  I recall a story from a co-worker whose friend worked at Pizza Hut where he earned cash tips as a waiter.  At the time minimum wage for waiters was just over $2/hour.  This particular guy failed to claim <em>any tips</em> on his tax form.  His tax return was flagged, he was audited, and he ended up having to pay thousands.  And to think this kid was only 19 years old at the time.  The I.R.S. isn&#8217;t big on auditing the lower class because there&#8217;s more money to be <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2008/01/21/irs-audits-of-millionaire_n_82441.html" target="_blank">made from the rich</a>.  But they&#8217;ll still shake down enough low wage earners to keep the masses intimidated.</p>
<p>Group number 3 would be the self employed.  Many self employed business owners will try and write off household expenses as a business expense.  Also, the self employed may fail to report cash transactions and instead simply pocket the money.  There are so many ways that a self employed worker can beat the I.R.S., it&#8217;s no surprise they fight back.</p>
<p>The wealthy or high income earners are group number 4.  In 2007 the I.R.S. audited one in every eleven citizens with income over one million dollars.  Compare that to the number of audits performed if your income is $100,000 or less; chances are one in a hundred that you&#8217;ll be making coffee for an Internal Revenue Agent.  However, as a whole these Agents are auditing about one in every hundred Americans who file a tax return.</p>
<p><strong>Focus on honesty</strong></p>
<p>Whether you think the Federal Income Tax is unconstitutional, unfair, or even immoral, you&#8217;ll be less concerned about an audit if you attempt to be honest.  This means reporting all of your income accurately.  If you&#8217;re honest about what you report, then the idea of an audit will seem less worrisome.  I knew a person once who received wages in the form of cash.  The contractor (who was self employed) could save on paperwork and employment related taxes by paying some employees in cash.  Because he was paid in cash this worker had a very small amount of income from a previous job reported on his tax return.  What this person failed to realize is that the cash he received should not have been deposited in the bank into his checking account.  If audited the first question an I.R.S. agent is going to ask is &#8220;Where did this money for the deposits come from?&#8221;  And if you rat on your boss then the I.R.S. will move over and audit him too.  If we try and play by the rules we are less likely to get burned.</p>
<p><strong>Maintain a paper trail</strong></p>
<p>Any deductions that you plan on reporting should be backed up with paper.  This would mean receipts, bills, or even charitable donations.  Anything that will have an effect on the way you fill out your tax return should be organized by category and filed.  If you can&#8217;t <em>prove </em>that you deserve a deduction by producing a receipt&#8230;..then don&#8217;t claim the deduction.  During an audit, having all your receipts organized and on hand, will make the I.R.S. agent realize that you are prepared.  Remember an audit doesn&#8217;t work like court.  The burden of proof is not on the State, it&#8217;s on you.</p>
<p>My father was audited because he claimed his sister as a dependent.  At the time both my fathers&#8217; parents were unemployed and my father, who was in his early twenties, was bringing home the bacon.  During the audit it was discovered that he lacked $25.00 in receipts to lawfully claim his sister as a dependent.  Therefore my father was audited the next two years as well.</p>
<p>If you are claiming something that could be seen as unusual, send a copy of it with your tax return.  For example, if you are claiming $13,000 in medical expenses, make a copy of the bills, attach it to the tax return, and mail them in.  This could prevent an audit.  Likewise, if you made large charitable donations, attach a copy of the receipt to your return.  This can only reduce your chances of an audit.</p>
<p><strong>Use online tax software</strong></p>
<p>Using an online tax service like <a href="http://turbotax.intuit.com/" target="_blank">Turbotax</a> will help reduce your chances of a mistake.  For example, this year I filled out a 1040 EZ to get a quick idea of how much tax I owed.  Later on I actually filed using the free online edition of Turbotax and discovered I owed much less than I thought.  It seems I forgot to subtract the standard deduction from my adjusted gross income when I was quickly filling the form out, causing my tax liability to be higher.  Online tax services also allow you to file your tax return with the I.R.S. online for free.  Your refund will be deposited into your bank account electronically if you&#8217;d like. But most importantly is the fact that Turbotax incorporates a wealth of tax knowledge into their tax software.  If there is a problem with your return, the software will likely catch it.</p>
<p>In the comments section below, a reader mentioned using <a href="http://www.mileagelogger.com/" target="_blank">Vulocity</a> to log business mileage.  I looked into it and Vulocity is a mileage logger which uses GPS technology to log your mileage for you.  From their website it states &#8220;<em>Simply plug the device into the car lighter adapter and place it in a cup holder, center console or sun visor and forget about it when you&#8217;re driving around for business. Let the power and accuracy of GPS technology do all of the writing for you.  The device receives GPS signals and transmits your mileage data wirelessly over the cellular network to you. Access all of your records online, any time</em>.&#8221;  It costs $249 and that doesn&#8217;t cover the $14.95 to $19.95 monthly fee for the logger and tracking service.  Since I despise wasting money I would do some research before buying.  If possible, try and find someone who has already purchased it and ask their opinion.</p>
<p><strong>Filing late</strong></p>
<p>This is a concept I&#8217;ve been reading a lot about lately.  There&#8217;s a consensus among some tax professionals that filing at the last possible moment (April 15th), or even filing an extension, will reduce your chances of an audit.  They claim that by April the majority of audit victims have already been selected.  I&#8217;ve read other sources that say the opposite, that filing an extension could actually trigger an audit.  If you&#8217;re planning on filing at the last possible minute don&#8217;t wait till April 15th to file using an online service like Turbotax. The internet traffic can be so impressive that in overwhelms the servers that host the website.  Why don&#8217;t we play it safe and shoot for April 13th?  Sounds good to me too.</p>
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		<title>Unearthed &#8211; Why Funerals Are So Expensive</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 Mar 2008 00:19:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Doesn&#8217;t $8,000 for the cheapest funeral in one of the poorest states in the Union seem a little excessive?  That&#8217;s what I thought.  Just this past week a distant cousin passed away quite unexpectedly.  He had stopped making payments on his burial policy about six months earlier, so the immediate family had to perform a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Doesn&#8217;t $8,000 for the cheapest funeral in one of the poorest states in the Union seem a little excessive?  That&#8217;s what I thought.  Just this past week a distant cousin passed away quite unexpectedly.  He had stopped making payments on his burial policy about six months earlier, so the immediate family had to perform a lot of leg work in arranging the funeral proceedings.  For the casket, wake, burial, and housing the body for two days, would cost an outrageous eight grand.  So I did a little research on why funerals are so expensive.  I hope this information helps readers discover the many options available in handling the loss of a loved one.  The problem with funerals is that, like so many businesses, there are endless pages of laws protecting the economic interests of established funeral homes.  Bear in mind that the laws pertaining to funerals and caskets may vary from state to state.  For federal laws that apply to all states click <a href="http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/services/funeral.shtm" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
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<p>Funerals are as expensive as they are because funeral home organizations have convinced communites that they have no other options but to purchase the &#8216;total package&#8217;.  Although you may not like the idea, funeral arrangement is a business transaction, and it should be treated like one.</p>
<p><strong>Caskets</strong></p>
<p>The state of Tennessee has a <a href="http://www.ij.org/economic_liberty/tennessee_caskets/9_16_99pr.html" target="_blank">law on the books</a> since 1972 forbidding the selling of caskets unless you have a funeral establishment or funeral director&#8217;s license.  This legislation only exists to allow funeral homes to charge outrageous mark ups on caskets.  A cheap metal casket can cost $300 to $500.  But after the funeral home slaps their price gun to it the price may be $1,500 to $3,000.  Many states have this same law.</p>
<p>In an ABC 20/20 investigation producer Mark Golden asked a funeral director about purchasing a cheaper casket.  The director replied &#8220;To be perfectly frank and honest with you, the metal casket is about one step above a Maxwell House coffee can.&#8221;  To which my response would have been &#8220;Who cares!&#8221;  The purpose of burial is to allow the body to decompose naturally, so it&#8217;s foolish to spend extra money trying to <em>preserve</em> your loved ones body.  You want the body to decompose.  These air tight caskets don&#8217;t allow the body to degenerate as it should, causing the interior of the casket to become a much more repugnant circumstance than it should naturally be.</p>
<p>During the investigation the funeral director tried to sell a protective vault to place the casket in.  This is more ridiculous rhetoric designed to make you feel like these upgrades are somehow beneficial to the decomposing body of your loved one.  Researcher Karen Leonard describes the illogical promotion of such upgrades &#8220;When you put a body in a protective casket, instead of the natural process of decomposition, drying out and becoming a skeleton, instead you get a slimy, moldy, much slower process and it&#8217;s much more gruesome.&#8221;</p>
<p>I just spent three minutes looking on the internet and already found a <a href="http://casketdiscount.com/meta%20caskets%20zoom%20templateJackson%20Copper.htm" target="_blank">20 gauge steel casket</a> for $899 and that includes free shipping.  I found <a href="http://www.budgetcasket.com/" target="_blank">this</a> source to be very informative about the legal?issues regarding casket sales.</p>
<p><strong>Embalming</strong></p>
<p>Normally embalming the body isn&#8217;t necessary unless you are going to have a wake or transport the body out of state.  If you don&#8217;t plan on having a wake you can leave the body in the funeral homes cooler instead of having it embalmed.  The funeral home can then move the body into the casket for transport to the burial site.  The funeral home will charge a stiff price for each day the body remains in their possession.  The FTC has laws pertaining to funeral homes.  One such law requires them to furnish a price list of services and products to buyers.  To read about these laws click <a href="http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/conline/pubs/services/funeral.shtm" target="_blank">here</a>.</p>
<p><strong>The Wake</strong></p>
<p>If you decide to have a wake then embalming will, of course, become part of the package.  But where you decide to have the wake can make a huge difference in the over all price of the funeral.  In the case of my distant cousin, the family saved $1,500 by moving the wake to a local church instead of having it in the funeral home.  In this occurrence the body is moved into the casket by the funeral home.  The casket is then transferred to the church by the funeral home, where it will remain until the following day of burial.  On the day of the burial the funeral home will return with the hearse and transport the casket to the cemetery.</p>
<p><strong>Other considerations</strong></p>
<p>Some people are no longer using caskets at all.  In fact this doesn&#8217;t seem like a bad idea because a coffin really isn&#8217;t even necessary.  In &#8220;<a href="http://www.gravematters.us/" target="_blank">Grave Matters</a>&#8221; author Mark Harris follows twelve families as they return their loved ones to the earth in a more natural, less costly and traditional manner.  Many loved ones are buried without embalming fluid, caskets, or wakes.  The documentary examines this new green burial underground, leading you into natural cemeteries and domestic graveyards, taking you aboard boats from which ashes and memorial reef balls are cast into the sea. He follows a family that conducts a home funeral and delivers a loved one to the crematory, another that hires a carpenter to build a pine coffin. Mark reveals &#8220;<em>The goal then and now is the same: to allow the body at death to rejoin the elements it sprang from, to use what remains of a life to regenerate new life, to return dust to dust</em>.&#8221;</p>
<p>Cremation is also a less expensive option. In the 20/20 investigation a funeral home director suggested the price of $3,300 for a cremation. Considering that a cremation coffin can be purchased <a href="http://www.abettercasket.com/incEngine/?content=store&amp;mode=display&amp;content=store&amp;product=1030191882" target="_blank">online for $356</a>, I would say that price was a little high. The total cost or a cremation should not exceed $1,000. If the funeral home refuses to give you accurate information report them to the FTC, contact your local newspaper, or even local radio and t.v. stations.  MSN Money has an article about cremations &#8220;<a href="http://articles.moneycentral.msn.com/RetirementandWills/PlanYourEstate/HowToPlanAFuneral.aspx" target="_blank">How to Plan a Funeral for $800</a>.&#8221;</p>
<p>Donating your body to science is probably the cheapest method.  Some universities will &#8220;<em>assume all costs involved in procuring the body upon death, cremation of the remains, and returning the ashes to your family.  All for free</em>.&#8221; (<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Myths-Lies-Downright-Stupidity-Everything/dp/B000YFH3PQ/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1205972676&amp;sr=8-1" target="_blank">Myths, Lies, and Downright Stupidity</a> &#8211; pg 161).</p>
<p>Although you want the passing of a loved one to be as respectful as possible, it&#8217;s foolish to spend money simply for the sake of spending.  Wakes, embalming, and expensive coffins are all part of an elaborate ceremony instilled in most communities.  But these expensive practices give the deceased no more love or protection than any other form of burial.  It&#8217;s what we do while our loved ones are alive that matters.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Whether you are trying to bring top dollar by selling your vehicle or just trying to give it a good cleaning, waxing your car&#8217;s finish restores and protects its appearance.  When people go to buy a car they will often base a large part of their decision on the appearance of the vehicle.  A vehicle with an immculate appearance and documented service history will set a buyer&#8217;s mind at ease.  Having worked in the auto detailing and service industry for 14 years I learned plenty about waxing cars.  Feel free to leave your comments or questions at the end of this article and I&#8217;ll respond quickly.</p>
<p><strong>Cleaning the vehicle</strong></p>
<p>Before waxing the vehicle it must be properly cleaned.  I often use Joy or Dawn dishwashing detergent. However, your local auto parts store like Autozone or even Wal-Mart will carry cleaning agents designed specifically for clear coated cars and trucks (like <a href="http://www.autobarn.net/black-magic-wet-shine.html" target="_blank">Black Magic Wet Shine</a>).  You can use an old terry cloth (bathroom hand towel) for washing your car.  There are other products on the market for this purpose as well.</p>
<p>Before getting to the main wash you need to inspect the vehicle.  Look along the front bumper and backs of mirrors for bug residue and damage.  Also, check directly behind the front and back tires along the painted surfaces for road tar, paint, cement, or even dried bubble gum.  You should also check the surfaces of the vehicle for pine or other forms of tree sap.  These will need to be removed (if possible) before waxing the vehicle.  Waxing over these items will not effect your ability to remove them later if you so desire.</p>
<p><em>Removing the bugs</em></p>
<p><img class="alignleft" style="float: left;" src="http://debtprison.net/images/bmw.jpg" alt="I wish I had a new bmw!" width="140" height="140" />In the South we experience &#8216;Love Bugs&#8217; in the first part of spring and last part of fall.  These small black insects fly through the air mating in such dense clouds it&#8217;s easy to have the entire windshield barely visible if driving on the interstate.  These and other bugs do much damage to a car&#8217;s finish because the acid in their bodies will slowly eat through your cars clear coat if not removed.  Also, just the impact of your car or truck with these insects can actually remove the paint altogether if traveling at high speeds (in excess of 55 mph).  To remove these bugs from the front of your vehicle use a mixture of water and soap and perform a pre-soak.  You need to have the bugs as penetrated with water as you can before trying to remove them.  I would spray the front of the vehicle with soap and water for at least ten minutes &#8211; keeping the bugs soaking.  Once the bugs have softened you need to scrub them with a pad or sponge designed for use on vehicles.  Don&#8217;t use an S.O.S. brillo pad because it&#8217;s made of metal wool and will seriously scratch your paints finish.  Many people are starting to use dryer sheets like Bounce &#8211; they say it works like a charm.  Insure that the bugs are completely removed to prevent damage to the clear coat.</p>
<p><em>Removing paint </em></p>
<p>If you have driven through wet paint, the faster you can remove it the better.  There&#8217;s no miracle cure for paint or cement.  In the past I&#8217;ve often used an old credit card and soapy water to carefully scrape dried paint from a car&#8217;s finish.  If the paint is still fresh you can try some form of petroleum distillates and wipe the paint off.</p>
<p>If your vehicle has experienced &#8216;overspray&#8217; then you could be looking at quite a bit of work.  Let&#8217;s say you parked you car at work and the business next door was being painted by a painter using a spray gun.  The wind was blowing and particles of paint were caught up in the wind and drifted onto your car.  This can often cover an entire vehicle.  It will look like you took table salt and sprinkled it all over the car in an even pattern.  Little specks of dried paint will be all over the paint and glass.  The safest way to remove overspray is to use a <a href="http://www.adamspolishes.com/p-37-8oz-clay-bar-lubricant.aspx" target="_blank">clay bar</a>.  When I used to manage an auto service center we would normally charge between $150 to $200 for overspray removal.  We had to charge so much because it often took many hours to remove all of it.  For the windows we would spray some glass cleaner and take a razor blade and slowly scrape the?overspray from the surface of the glass.  For the painted surfaces we would spray mild soapy water and rub with the clay bar until the overspray was removed.  The clay bar will not harm your vehicle&#8217;s finish.</p>
<p><em>Dried cement</em></p>
<p>This is the worse one because it may be impossible to remove dried cement without damaging your vehicle&#8217;s paint.  I&#8217;ve only attempted this a couple of times.  Once I used an old credit card and soapy water to scrape the cement.  The resulting scratches were buffed out using a high speed buffer.  The other time I used an abrasive sponge pad and the cement was fairly fresh.  The remaining scratches were buffed.</p>
<p><em>Road tar</em></p>
<p>This is the black stuff used to make pavement.  If workers are paving a road or highway you can easily drive through this black tar and the circular motion of your tires can sling the stuff along the rocker panel.  There are two ways I normally remove road tar.  If possible I use a <a href="http://store.jaxwax.com/ProductDetails.asp?ProductCode=SC&amp;CartID=" target="_blank">citrus based solvent</a>.  Made from citrus fruits this product is very safe to handle and melts road tar away with ease.  Otherwise I use a petroleum distillate.  If the tar has been on the vehicle for a long time neither of these methods may faze it.  If that&#8217;s the case you can treat it like dried paint and go with an old credit card and soapy water.</p>
<p><em>Pine and other forms of tree sap</em></p>
<p>Pine tree sap is especially caustic and will actually eat through the clear coat and paint, leaving you staring a spot of bare metal.  Normally this takes a year or two.  However, the longer pine sap sits on the clear coat, the more damage it does and the harder it is to remove it.  I&#8217;m gonna recommend a terry cloth soaked with 70% alcohol or nail polish remover.  You can get some watered down versions on the market but this stuff normally does the trick.  If the pine sap has been on the car for a long time I might take the blade of a knife and <em>carefully</em> scrape the top layer of sap from the spot, since the outer shell is often rock hard.  I&#8217;ve never had pine sap that I couldn&#8217;t remove.  However, sometimes I would have to rub the same spot for several minutes.  We used to charge one dollar per spot.</p>
<p><strong>Waxing your car or truck</strong></p>
<p>Waxing your vehicle&#8217;s finish removes dirt and grime from the clear coat and also leaves a protective finish that often lasts for a couple of months (depending on weather and other conditions).  The more applications you apply the better the result.  Keep mind that some waxes can be very hard to remove, so you&#8217;ll have to try what&#8217;s on the market and see what works best for you.  Most importantly I would purchase a wax that contains <strong>Carnauba</strong>.  Over the years I found that waxes containing carnauba performed very well for most paint finishes.</p>
<p>If it&#8217;s a hot day (over 75 F) I wouldn&#8217;t wax the car out in the direct sunlight.  You don&#8217;t want the paint surface to become too hot while you are waxing the car.  This can make the wax very difficult to remove from the clear coat.  If you are having trouble removing the dried wax, I recommend stopping by the auto parts store and see if they have any <em>liquid</em> spray wax like <a href="http://www.autogeek.net/pinnacle-souveran-spray-wax.html" target="_blank">this one</a>.  Then I would place the car in the shade to make sure the paint was cool.  I would soak the dried wax with the liquid wax.  Next I would spray the liquid wax on a terry cloth towel.  Then I would aggressively rub the dried wax with the damp part of the towel.  Rubbing a paints finish too hard without the liquid wax barrier can leave a blemish on the clear coat.</p>
<p><em>Applying by hand</em></p>
<p>I want you to remember that wax needs to be applied in a thin film.  Watching a thick coat of wax drying on your car may be impressive but it&#8217;s no fun trying to remove.  Also, you just wasted half the bottle.  Use an applicator pad especially designed for this purpose &#8211; most places carry a terry cloth pad, I like these the best.  Put a small amount of wax on the pad and apply in a circular motion.  Try to maintain an even amount of pressure on the pad and spread the wax evenly.  Take care not to get wax on the moldings and rubber trim of your vehicle.  If you do the wax can embed itself in the microscopic pores of the plastic or rubber and turn white.  If this happens to you try putting a little tire shine over it to conceal the blemish.</p>
<p>Once you have the entire vehicle covered let dry for about thirty minutes.  Come back with a dry terry cloth hand towel and begin rubbing the wax from the paint.  You will have to flip the towel many times and may need more than one.  When you&#8217;re finished you can repeat the steps for any area which still need attention.</p>
<p><em>Applying by low speed buffer</em></p>
<p>Make sure you are using the proper bonnet for the application, preferably a terry cloth bonnet.  Nearly all the buffers on the market are low speed buffers and cost anywhere from thirty to eighty dollars.  High Speed buffers are often $150 to $200 so you aren&#8217;t likely to buy one on accident, besides they look like a hand held grinder.  And if not used properly you can burn the clear coat and ruin a good paint job.  If you have serious scratches that can&#8217;t be removed by hand then have a professional buff your car with a high speed buffer.  I would recommend a body shop over a car wash or detail shop.  A body shop is less likely to damage your vehicle.  Only an experienced person should handle a high speed buffer, you don&#8217;t want a newbie &#8216;practicing&#8217; on your car&#8217;s finish.  We finally stopped offering high speed buff services at all three of our locations due to customer damage claims.</p>
<p>When applying the wax stop periodically to apply more wax as needed, taking care not to apply too much.  Handle the buffer carefully, since tipping it on its side could cause the handle to scratch the paint&#8217;s surface.  Also, take care not to let the extension cord get caught up in the buffer.  After the wax has been applied remove it using the buffer and a clean terry cloth bonnet or by hand.</p>
<p>Well that&#8217;s all I can think of right now.  If you have any questions just leave me a comment below and I&#8217;ll be sure to respond shortly.</p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Having just finished another article entitled &#8220;<a href="http://debtprison.net/wordpress/93/planning-precedes-performance/" target="_blank">Planning Precedes Performance</a>&#8221; where I discussed how to impress your boss, I thought it would be wise to discuss the fact that accepting a promotion on the job is often a bad idea.  Within the last three years I&#8217;ve personally been promoted and quit a job as District Manager, witnessed the guy promoted after I quit resign in disgust, and just witnessed a good friend at my current job contact corporate headquarters and actually demote himself.  Some promotions are a good move and others are for the birds, let&#8217;s discuss the pro&#8217;s and con&#8217;s of moving up the rungs of responsibility at your job.</p>
<p><strong>How&#8217;s the money?</strong></p>
<p>As you can tell by the title of this blog I need increases in my annual income more than some people.  Being in debt and a slave to finances is enough to get anyone off their butt and working hard.  However, unlike the man I was in my twenties, I now try and balance work with time off.  Psychological health is just as important as physical and financial health.  Flaws in any one of these areas can ruin your chances of success in the other two.</p>
<p>In 2006 I took a promotion with my current employer when they offered me the position for the third time.  Here&#8217;s why I waited so long.  I had just quit a job as District Manager where I worked sixty hours per week and was on call 7 days.  I didn&#8217;t realize just how miserable and stressed I was until I quit working for the company altogether.  The company that I currently work for had one little deal-breaking detail that was making that promotion look like a bad idea.  As a foreman with employees under my supervision my paycheck would see little increase.  Why should I step up from the level of technician to foreman without a substantial increase in pay?  Besides, the foreman that I had worked around were over-worked and stressed, often working seven days a week for a salary slightly higher than my own.  One quit last year out of frustration and the other one demoted himself.</p>
<p>The reason I finally accepted the promotion was because the company was changing it&#8217;s per hour rates and I was about to lose a couple of dollars per hour.  The difference in the upcoming rates of pay were significant enough for me to step up to the plate and take on more responsibility.</p>
<p>Many companies have supervisory positions that pay little more than experienced workers. If that&#8217;s the case then I wouldn&#8217;t accept the job.  Most employers will rightfully try and save on labor costs where they can, and many just don&#8217;t see the need in paying more for these positions.  I&#8217;m sure they have their reasons.  For example, many people are willing to accept receiving less money per hour (which is typically the outcome of salary instead of hourly pay) because they are being promoted to a position of authority.  I don&#8217;t understand this mentality.  Some people go down this road because it may open doors to a higher pay grade.  This is understandable thinking but you should really weigh the good versus the bad.  I always recommend looking out for number one, because at the end of it all that will be your position anyway &#8211; the same is true for the company.</p>
<p><strong>**</strong>There&#8217;s one other reason why accepting a promotion can be a good idea even though the money isn&#8217;t much better.  And that is if the promotion means you&#8217;ll learn new skills that can actually translate into higher paychecks on down the road &#8211; if not with your present employer, perhaps a competitor.</p>
<p><strong>Does this new position have a good track record?</strong></p>
<p>Did people in the past enjoy this position?  Ask someone who used to perform this job about what they liked and disliked about the advancement.  For example, regarding my previous employer and the position of District Manager, this was a position that was opened from time to time.  If the owners of the company had someone they felt could fill the position they would open it again.  The new District Manager would remain in the job for a few months and then either get fired or quit.  When I asked my old District Manager his advice about my having replaced him he responded &#8220;Just quit, it will be the smartest thing you ever did!&#8221;  Turns out he was right, it really was honest advice.</p>
<p>If your company is &#8216;creating&#8217; a new position for you then be forewarned.  This can be trouble because corporate may not even know what results they expect you to perform, and having no history to base expectations on, one could easily fail.  Chances are if the job has a track record of low turnover, generally happy history, and pays enough to reconcile the added responsibility, then certainly it should be considered.</p>
<p><strong>Can you handle the added responsibility?</strong></p>
<p>Just as a promotion comes with added financial incentives it also often comes with more hours worked and more responsibility.  I&#8217;ve seen people that were happy and cooperative employees.  But after receiving a promotion the added hours and stress took its course on their personalities.  The once gentle puppies had turned into angry pit bulls.  It was obvious that the new position wasn&#8217;t for them.</p>
<p>You should know your limits.  If you&#8217;re a free spirit that doesn&#8217;t handle stress well then admit it.  Find something else that you can succeed at.  Trust me &#8211; being in a position of authority isn&#8217;t all it&#8217;s cracked up to be.  Some people do it for the psychological authority factor and some for the money, but no one does it because they have nothing better to do.</p>
<p><strong>What will be the effect on your family?</strong></p>
<p>Nothing is more important than our spouses and children.  Making more money has its perks, but children need mothers and fathers a whole lot more than they need a new car in the garage.  Americans have a real problem with this &#8211; sponsoring the rat race and all like we do.  No promotion is worth ruining your marriage over.  If the new job means you&#8217;ll be traveling all around the country where there&#8217;s no possible way for you be there for your spouse and children then turn it down.</p>
<p>Earlier I spoke of psychological, physical, and financial health.  Success in these areas depends on a balance shared between each of them.  Had you rather be a Honda Accord, getting good gas mileage and low maintenance &#8211; or a Mustang GT, burning through gasoline, tires, and transmissions?  I&#8217;ll take the Honda Accord every day of the week. Promotions and financial wealth are important, but each has its limits for a balanced life.</p>
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